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Stephen Hayter

12 October 1945 - 28 April 1987

Photo of Stephen Hayter's panel on the New Zealand AIDS Memorial Quilt

For more detail, a high-resolution version of this image (about 5 times wider than shown above) is available for download here. Broadband is recommended - file is big (8.8 Mb).

This panel forms part of Block 16 of the New Zealand AIDS Memorial Quilt.

 

From the stories folder that accompanies The Quilt to displays

The two telephones depicted on the panel represent the way in which Stephen kept in touch with all his friends around the world throughout his life. He made friends easily and kept in touch with all of them, as well as family, by telephone, a pastime which consumed many hours every week.

The NZ - UK - USA - UK - NZ links show where Stephen chose to live throughout his adult life.The old style telephone at the top is similar to one his mother had a the time and the push-button one at the bottom represents the type of phone he used.

Stephen was an Old Boy of Nelson College, consequently, the College colours form the background for the Quilt. The fantails, along with white herons, were his favourite birds.

While living in London, Stephen owned/managed various night clubs etc. in the West End, with many of Britain's top entertainers being regular patrons. Stephen got to know them all on a personal level. After he died, there was a memorial service for him in St. Stephen's Chapel, in London's West End, the church being packed to overflowing, and among those attending, was literally a Who's Who of the British entertainment industry at the time. This time in London is remembered on the Quilt by the multi-coloured links between the telephones, from the disco lights in the night-clubs.

Stephen spent the last few months of his life in Nelson Hospital before being flown to his mother's home where he died. This was covered extensively in the local newspapers at the time.

Stephen was one of the first people to die as a result of AIDS in New Zealand, and the first one in the South Island.

 

If you knew Stephen and wish to add your memories to this page, or wish to remember a loved one with a strong connection to New Zealand who has been lost to AIDS, you may do so on this page.
 

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